The type stereotype

Favour Sam
2 min readMay 16, 2022
Photo by Jana Sabeth on Unsplash

There's this stereotype that really gets me, our gender was something that we couldn't change in the past but now a days with the fast growing technologies of this generation which i actually love "wink wink" everything is possible, but what i do hate is someone or anyone asking questions like what is your type of guy to a girl or what is your type of girl to a guy? well i have recently found the answer to this questions, "their type is definitely not you". Seriously, what makes you assume that a girls type is a guy or a guys type is a girl.

Occasionally i love to dress sexy, and whichever dress i chose to wear would always compliment my slim curvy figure, but what blows my mind is when a guy approaches me and be like "hey can i have your number, buy you a drink or whatever" why? personally i would rather keep myself company, i know if i were to be dressed in some baggy clothes looking all fat and timid, he wouldn't even make eye contact or approach me at all.

So i would advice on behalf of some persons that if you do notice them, just ask if you're their type, well except they do the flirting first or give you that i want your attention look, if not, then you're definitely not their type.

I am totally into guys and i even have a type, but i take it very seriously for the sake of those whom this may apply to. A girl can appear sexy not necessarily for the boys to notice her, but because that is her style and she feels amazing like that, she must not look all tomboyish to make you see that she is not into you. The same way a guy can dress all suit up , not for the girls to drool over his good looks and god like presence but because he feels comfortable going about without makeup and heels. So believe it or not, you're not their type.

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